As a newly pure gal’, and one who’s presently on a protecting type binge, I all the time benefit from the days after I take down my protecting type (which has constantly been crochet braids for the previous couple of months) and spend per week or two rocking my pure hair.
Nevertheless, I discovered myself questioning if whether or not I might put on my hair in it’s full fluffy blown out state to work, or “play it protected” and throw on a fast wig* that I might simply take off after I received dwelling that night.
I imply, the truth that I had to consider how my pure hair would have an effect on these round me, or what would they assume once they noticed my hair, is a bit embarrassing.
But, it’s actual. I’ve had many experiences the place individuals ask to “contact” my hair, and even, extra lately, aspect eye me on the subway as a result of my hair was out in a full fro.
I hate to confess that I made a decision on sporting the wig* to work throughout the week simply because I didn’t wish to reply questions on why my hair is totally different from the earlier week, or what do I do to my hair, or “can I contact it.”
However on the identical time, I really feel as if that was a cop out. It shouldn’t matter how my pure hair impacts anybody, and if anyone comments- who cares!
I’m actually enthusiastic about my subsequent protecting type break, and I’m going to apologetically rock my pure coils each single day. I’m not going to cover them, as a result of primarily, I’m hiding a bit of myself, or saying that theres part of me that I ought to be ashamed of as a result of it’s not “the norm.”
So, if you’re questioning what somebody goes to consider your natural- whether or not it’s coworkers, like in my scenario, or your loved ones, or perhaps a boyfriend, then I recommend you set in your Huge Woman pants, and be you! You might be fantastically and splendidly made, and whether or not anyone likes it or not, your pure hair is aside of that bundle.